Let me explain a few things that have changed how I experience and understand health, starting with sleep. It turns out sleep is the most important thing in our lives, there's literally nothing more crucial than sleep. I follow five habits to master it, and I'd encourage you to try the same.
You need to see yourself as a professional sleeper. You don’t sleep when it’s convenient, or after you finish watching a show, or after a social event. You sleep as your most important appointment of the day. Take it seriously, just like you take your identity as an entrepreneur seriously, you have to do the same with sleep. It's a profession. Sleep is your personal identity.
Start by eating your last meal at least two hours before bed, then experiment with pushing it to three, four, or more. Personally, my last meal is at 11:30 a.m., about nine hours before I sleep. I tested this a few hundred times to optimize sleep quality. I think I have the world’s best sleep score in human history. Eight months of perfect sleep wearing Whoop. My resting heart rate before bed is now around 40, eating closer to bedtime raises my heart rate would be around 56 or 57 and I would lose about 35% of my sleep quality.
It’s algorithmic: eating earlier and lighter helps your body prepare for sleep instead of spending resources in metabolic processes required to digest food.
During my eight months of perfect sleep, I went to bed within one minute of 8:30 p.m. every night. This strengthened my circadian rhythm so much that my body was ready to sleep at exactly the same time each night. Ideally, you should aim for consistency within 30 minutes of your chosen bedtime.
Light plays a big role in sleep quality. Avoid blue light from screens and typical house lights in the evening. Switch to warmer, yellow tones or, ideally, red light. In my home, we turn off all regular lights and switch to red bulbs within an hour before winding down for the day around 7:30 p.m.
As important as the time you eat, disconnect from the mental overload of the day by buffering that through a wind-down routine of roughly an hour. Many of you work intensely that when it’s time for bed thinking about what you missed, what you need to do, and reconciling all of reality from the day. You will be in this light sleep mode all night. You need to calmly acknowledge these thoughts, gently brush them aside, and keep doing this repeatedly.
By doing so, you can calm your nervous system, you've acknowledged the thoughts, and you can tell yourself, "Okay, I’ve heard you, we can handle these things tomorrow."
Never put yourself in a situation where you need discipline or willpower. Instead, create non-negotiable systems and let those systems guide you. Never give yourself an on-the-spot choice about things like food or sleep, just establish rules and apply them. You guys build systems all the time, right? You can do the same for your life. We know that willpower rarely wins; it fails every time. So don’t rely on it.
Audience member: I noticed you wearing sunglasses. I stopped using them to improve my circadian rhythm and sleep. Does that not affect your sleep?